I had an interesting conversation with a client on team performance. My client was upset because his team members were not doing the job he wanted them to do. He told me, “I tell them exactly what to do, still the job is of poor quality. This is frustrating”
On deep dive, we explored the challenge was not with ability. They were technically competent but motivation was low. It was clear that my client was directive and wanted full control of the situation. He feared losing customers. He was using his energy from fear and stress for more compliance. But..
Control was not yielding the desired results.
I introduced him to the research on the theory of motivation. Studies have shown that the way to foster self-motivation in others is to support their autonomy, their competence, and their relatedness. These are the three core psychological needs that when filled, lead to self-motivation.
Shifting your focus from directing and controlling towards self-motivation and empowerment could be a new habit for you. But once you start implementing this new behavior of not being so directive, your relationship with your team would be far more rewarding for both.
With behavior change, start small as Dr. B J Fogg advises in his brilliant book ‘Tiny Habits‘. The tiny next step could be just noticing when you are being directive and replacing that with an open ended question.
How about you? What is your tiny next step to boost motivation in your team?